Supporting someone having an abortion

Your partner, friend or relative, or someone you are a carer for, is coming to MALAIKA WOMEN'S HEALTH because she is considering, or has decided to end her pregnancy. Each woman approaches the experience in her own way. For some the decision is quite straightforward, for others this may not be the case.
Every year, thousands of women and couples face unplanned and possibly unwanted pregnancy. Most women are helped through this experience by someone they trust.
We know that providing reassurance and support to someone you care for can be difficult, particularly if you are both experiencing a situation that you may find stressful.
This page aims to help you understand the consultation and treatment process and answer the most frequently asked questions and concerns that partners have.
The final decision to end or continue the pregnancy is made by the woman herself. You may feel a little helpless and excluded during this process. You might feel more involved by asking your partner or loved one how she would like you to help and reassure her.
We need to make sure that the treatment we provide is legal and safe, so we need to perform certain checks and processes before treatment. There are a variety of people to see and the person you are supporting can re-join you in the waiting room in between each stage of the consultation, medical assessment and treatment process.
We ask for your patience while we carry out the checks and medical tests needed to ensure the wellbeing of your loved one or friend.